WCW, Doing the same thing and expecting a different result is a waste of time and life. Not an opinion, A FACT. I sympathize with all but the husband, that can be changed.
While BH is entitled to his opinion, there is nothing else I can do other than to move but that is impossible. If I am standing still, that is due to the economy. I am and have focused on other things.
We still have a roof over our heads and food on the table, and I have budgeted very carefully with regard to the unemployment funds and by the Grace of God, we have made it.
Seems to me, BH, you are more focused on my husband than I am.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
MWG, you are 100% right, I AM. You just don't seem to understand that its because of him that you have to deal with all these other problems. You also don't seem to understand that until you move on WITHOUT him, nothing will change. He is not coming back, so why stay married to him?
B/H could it be because this is her belief??????? When God tells her to move on, then this will take place, but not until when GOD speaks to our hearts and tells us to... we have been freed from our spouses but we must listen to God not the opinions of others....and I do beleive God speaks to us everyday when we ask him for direction.....we need to support each other in here.... 2x4's are good for each of usbut not each time we post anything in here.....God be with us all and may he bless each and every single one of us....
God does speak to us in many different ways, however I am of the opinion that most people do not listen and do what they want to for whatever reason. I do pray for you all on here, believe it or not.
Forward, I disagree with you, the H is the cause of many, if not all the problems and she knows this. Notice how when you moved on, your XH's little world came crumbling down and your opportunities increased? Hmmmm..........
BH: My getting a job has NOTHING to do with my H and has NOTHING to do with my moving forward. He receives nothing from us at all.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
