That was a very good response. I like a little fire in a person's belly. My point is that you still have decisions to make. Has your situation changed? What is your opinion? Are you going to forgive this man for straying? Can you be happy in this marriage?
I do understand that this is a roller coaster ride for you. And I have looked at your subsequent posts. Yes, you do bitch, moan, and complain. That's ok. But at some point you have to stop. Tell us about the positives.
Quote: it is only when I sit back and stop looking for what it is I think I want and look at what I am getting that I realize I am getting what I want and the things that I'm not getting I can ask for and will be more likely to get if I am already looking at the r as positive and just looking for a little icing, instead of constantly acting like everything depends on what I think I want.
Thus I suggest that you read this book: "Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting: The Astonishing Power of Feelings" by Lynn Grabhorn. The basic ideas of the text is that we get back what we give off. This might help you.
LL, I see your oscillations. So all I have to go on is what I have heard you say and what I have seen you write. And one of those things was that you didn't know if you wanted to be married to this man.
So, I will leave you with this question. Have you decided that you are going to be married to this man?
