Thanks R2C. That is what I did on Thursday nite and I meant to be home in time to tuck them in on Sunday too, just slipped by. I'll do better with that in the future.

I am hoping for the week-on/week-off thing too. My atty suggested the mid-week dinner visit too. Sometimes I think a few days on/few days off would be better for my work schedule, but I think that is too much jostling for the kids.

Last time I brought it up, W said that she didn't want to talk about it yet. I also brought-up valuing our assets so that we could divide them a while back and she said she didn't want to talk about that because it was too soon. Seems there are a lot of things she doesn't want to talk about, OM included.

On a related note, a few days after she told me she wanted a D, she stopped wearing her wedding ring. I offerred mine to her one time, but she wouldn't take it. My sister asked why she had to borrow retainer money for her lawyer. Why didn't she just sell the ring for money? Should I ask for it back? In the back of my mind sometimes I think she is keeping it and doesn't want to talk about all of these issues because she really doesn't want to do this.

Maybe just wishful thinking......