Glad to hear that things may be moving in a positive direction for you.
Get your plan together. Write down your boundaries and keep them handy so you can get them at a moments notice if necessary. When talking with my W, I have a lot of trouble staying focused and remembering everything that I want to say. Things don't go as I anticipated, we get off on a tangent and then I forget to make certain points. I always have to at least write it down in bullet-point format so I can make sure I address everything.
There have been many good boundary posts on these boards. If you are unsure, review some of them or try googling "relationship boundaries" or something. I'm never afraid to look for new ideas or get help.
