I am not afraid of what she would say. I just wish everything comes out, so we can move forward. That is what I want. I want all the skeletons to come out, no matter how bad. I just dont know how to get to that point with out flat telling or pressuring her to do so.

I think about what boundaries that need to be set, it's when these times arise, the good 'ol emotions come and cloud what I need to set.


Me 31 Wife 34
(Step)D 15 /(Step)S 13 / D 6
Married 3/3/01
Separated 6/4/10
Bomb 6/14/10
Served 6/22/10
EA/PA Discovered 7/5/10
Now Back Together 8/1/10