I can definitely see where you would want to file. Your H has been at a complete standstill for months now! I don't know how you can make him pick up the phone, but you're right, that absolutely has to be addressed. You would have thought your emergency last week would have been a wake up call for that, when he had no idea what was wrong b/c he wouldn't pick up his phone originally. Besides dealing with these logistical issues, you seem to really be moving along well with your own life. Since I seem to be a few months behind you now in the stages with H, I hope to find that peace soon too (unless you have any words of wisdom looking back now on how to get off the D trail!)
In regards to your question a few weeks ago, I have some more info on saving text messages to your computer (if you already haven't figured it out). Who makes your phone? I just got a new pantech phone a few weeks ago & the texts are already full, so I had to search this out some more this weekend. This phone did not come with a USB cable either, but I was able to pick up one at amazon for a few bucks (usb connection on one side and phone connection - same as charger - on the other.) All the phone manufacters seem to have a PC Suite that you can download for free, so I downloaded that. From there, you should be able to hook it up, follow the directions, and be good to go. Hope that helps!
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