Your h owns his choice to leave and it is his responsibility to tell your 3yo. It is your responsibility to be present, listen and not tolerate any lies, mind reading, etc and answer questions.
It is your responsibility to set boundaries with H before the meeting. We can help script it out if you would like.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
