I have seen similar posts from you. You still have the same situation that you did before the trip to the doctor's.
IMP
fine imp..
would you like me to say...
LL....your h is a selfish pig who has been screwing around on you since day one...you've just been too blind to see it...you got all wrapped up in his gentlemaness. You are nothing to him but a trophy and if not for the kids and the house he would never have come home. You think that he didn't want to take off his wedding band becuase it meant anything to him...well your wrong...he didn't want to take it off becuase it made him all the more attractive to the little hussies..then he could play the my wife just doesn't appreciate me card too.
or would you prefer I say...
LL, take a good look around...look at who h really is and stop comparing him to the rest of the creepy a$$holes in this world. What is it you're really looking for from him...thing is you don't even know...you say you want him to want you physically and then when he does you get pissy cause you think it's only because he's horny..do you not pay attention to what he does do for you? You blame him for your position and lack of free time...what do you do to ensure your time...heck if you can say "I have a meeting at x time" and can leave then why don't you either put your foot down and say I'm going here or there at x time and go..if he can't be there get a sitter to cover the gap..what's wrong with that? H is not the selfish one, you are...you want it all to be about you you you!
aw the hell with it...there's no point in explaining myself to anyone other than myself.