Hey Guys at a loss need some Advice Hope !!

[Espr444]

I almost did but after her Almost breakdown in April I was planning on buy tickets for her b-day/ our anniversary as they would be on sale soon. She told me that I could still go I said thanks but it was going to be gift for u. So never did should have realized then I guess, but was still on the persuit!! Now I don't no what to do!!!

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I'd wait until the date gets much closer, Hope. A lot could change -- and change yet again -- between now and then.

Puppy

[Espr444]

Well my ? Is do u think I should still by them I guess or during our last anniversary we talked about hotair balloon ride.

Just trying to save my money for anything that happens good or bad. Your right who knows what can happen from now and end of Aug. Just want to be prepared.

Any thoughts on what to do if still in this same situation?

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I certainly wouldn't do anything overboard, that's for sure. It will only be seen as "pursuing."

[Espr444]

No I know just wondering what if anything or just a card not sure even where we stand right now especially since she just got back.

I do have to find out from W when my mom will get to see our S as W ran out of time to stop by and set things up. So I have to be nice on the phone and talk about that & money for the month or maybe W will call like she said she would. Oh well leaving work soon and off to midterm thanks

[Espr444]

To be honest I'd be happy just to go out for dinner and drinks! Who knows I just lost for answers... Later hope

[Espr444]

Hey guys,
1 midterm down 1 to go; anyway got a text from W thanks for pets, S forgot charger so feel free to call my Mom's house if want transferred. Me: k thanks any clue when S coming home? Found out its Aug 14th.

Well that sucks, but at least I have a date now!!! Guess we want be chatting till that week and that’s probably a good, I just hate all of this I don't know when S will see my Mom. As W has not told me anything of what is going on. So I told her to call my mom to let her no...

This who thing is just messed up and I' m getting tired of all this; maybe it's the stress getting to me, work, school, not knowing our situation about the separation or D. Also another couple that we’re good friends with is getting a legal separation.

It’s actually one of W best friends I just don’t get why everyone wants to throw in the towel. Needless to say he and I will be hanging out more, as I’m sure W will be doing the same (oh well) talk later Hope..

[Puppy Dog Tails]

For now, you should concentrate on your remaining mid-term, Hope. None of this other stuff will go anywhere in the meantime.

Give yourself a break.

Puppy

[LSG]

Hope147,

I am so sorry for your situation right now. Do focus on your mid-terms, and the things that you can do something about for now.

I too don't understand why D is the alternative for so many these days.

Hang in there for you and your S.

[Espr444]

Hey thanks guys,
Just was a little frustrated and angry last night and tired of sleeping and being alone in my place. I'm trying to stay focused and busy. Just overwelmed sometimes.
Later hope