Your thinking makes sense, in that it seems to fit the "Pay no attention to ALL of what they say, and only HALF of what they do" that we try to go by around here.
But the problem with it that I have is, you are FLYING BLIND, with no good intel in place. All I have to do is look back at my own sitch, and see the times when my wife was openly talking RECONCILATION, when my GPS turned up she was at her bulldog attorney's, quietly scheming DIVORCE and CUSTODY. Or telling me that she wanted to try marriage counseling, while my snooping revealed her telling her brother that "I'm only going to MCing to get Mom and Dad off of my back, and so the kids will think I tried."
I still say you need more, good, INTEL.
I mean, re-read your opening paragraph, and tell me what the flaw is:
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The thing i am wondering now is what should be my next step? She hasn't told me anything as far as what she wants. She has only told me what she feels. I'm not trying to be the optimist, but she has not told me that she is getting a divorce, or seen a lawyer, or anthing that she is going to do. She has only told me that the is tired and she is done. That she does not want to mislead me, and will not say I love you to me.
