If you belong to a church, you might also see if there are any programs for marriage through them. If your W is ashamed at talking to a counselor, a group setting with other couples might be good.
There are also some great podcasts available for download for free on the iTunes store. Stay Happily Married is a great one.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
