For what it's worth, there's confusion there and perhaps a chance he'll come out of the fog.
In my case, from the minute I moved out I believe she was dead set on a D. There was only one good conversation in the past 15 months where I sensed any chance for us and even in that one she was saying there's nothing left of the woman I married.
Clinging, I def think he is confused because he makes conficting statements over and over. With that said, how long do I want to stay like this? It's not healthy. Why did you move out?