Do you believe it when he says stuff about missing you etc? I mean I'm sure he loved you but right now? I hate to judge people but I can't help it...could he be saying all this to keep you confused so you can sign over the house to him? It seemed to me he was very interested in getting his house free and clear while you were stuck with the used furniture?
Changing gears...do you think he adopted sort of a DB attitude towards you when you guys were fighting and you moved out? like not pursuing you hoping you'll patch stuff up? I don't know enough details but I'm wondering if he thought letting you go would ultimately bring you back to him?
Changing gears again...you should think about the future though like if you plan to have kids, family etc do you see him as that person you can rely on and grow old with? If not, this is the time to end this. As harsh as it may sound I see so much positive in your and Brena's situation because you are both young and no kids yet!
((hugs)) PS. I liked your post in Brena's thread...you should cut and paste some of that advice for yourself too
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
