Thanks for the warning pup. Maybe I should have just traded beds with her. I'll remember that in the future.

My posts do get very long from time to time, but I want to make sure I tell everything to get the best advice, so I include lots of details. I know it makes them harder to people to stay committed to though. I appreciate everything that you and the other are doing for me and realize that it is not an easy task for you guys.

I sometimes worry that in GAL I am spending too much time out in bars or away from the kids. I would guess the bars thing could be held against me in terms of being a fit parent, but she does much of the same, so that would be a bomb that would get us both if she chooses to detonate it.

Thanks to all for the feedback, it really helps me stay on track!