First of all, THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE to our country. What is it with all of these wayward women cheating on their husbands while they're FREAKING DEFENDING OUR COUNTRY???!!!
I'm sorry, that just frosts my ass.
You need to talk to an atty, ASAP -- a good family law attorney in the state where your wife and you last had legal residence. You may have a case for "abandonment" or even "kidnapping," and you also don't want to do anything that would jeopardize any of your rights. This sounds fishy to me:
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She wants me to move there so I can be close to the kids but says there's "no chance" of us reconciling
There could be legal ramifications if you do that, I dunno.
You'll also want to know if your former state of residence with her does, indeed, have jurisdiction over this matter, and if it's a "fault" or a "no-fault" state when it comes to divorce.
I'm really sorry you're having to go thru this, when you ought to be concentrating on your duties.
Puppy
Yup, there's something about a WAW cheating on a husband who is deployed overseas defending their country, very disrespectful, this thread will be very reminiscent of tbart's thread, pretty similar situation except in your sitch Ragman, your wife has admitted that she has started dating.
My question is this, is she allowed to get up and move out of country, never mind out of state, currently giving you no access to your children? Seems illegal to me.
robx,
A cheating wife while a man deployed gets my blood boiling. It makes fun of it all, and is truly quite disgusting in my opinion.