Swimming...bah don't worry about it. Its all drama, all the time and it would do you good separate from that. I think we can all agree that this is doing some damage to your self esteem. To get repect, you have to respect yourself and show it. And it starts with beleiving that you dont deserve this kind of drama in your life. These people are fishing to have thier behavior ligitmized and everyone knows its absurd.

By saying he's not a loser, you are saying you respect your H...when his actions are disrespectful to you. You're defending him and his actions.

Formerly SGfan
M:38
W:33
M:8 yrs
T:10 yrs
Bomb: Dec '08
Separated: 4/18/09
Divorce: 8/28/09
XW Affair began: April 08