What you say may be true, but then my ex told the counselor that she was never really madly in love with me or something to that effect. They were words. I did come across some stuff that she sent me while engaged. You know what, she was crazy about me. So who knows. Words can be idle. I don'ty know if that is the case with your sitch or not.
Quote: ramble, ramble, ramble, bitch, bitch, bitch.....all I can do is talk and try and change, and do this or don't do this or do that or don't do that...point is the only way to get h's attention
but are you really getting any attention?
Quote: I honestly don't even think I want a r anymore...how bout a friend...that would be nice.
I actually find that to be healthy. And also, it is best to define ourselves in regards to ourselves and not in regards to any relationship that we may have.