I really appreciate the support that everyone gives here. I'm sure there will be numerous times that I will need more and at least now I know exactly where to get it.

thanks all and I'll keep it up to date.

just got back from L, going to look into some numbers and see where we are at with the house and kids. Also mentioned that they could probably get info on that cell number W keeps calling. Thinks is might serve a purpose even though infidelity is not a reason for D here, it might help in spousal support if I need it