no offense taken, no worries ;-)

However, as a college "edumicated" intelligent woman,
you should know that if he's willing to let you go for some woman who chases after married men then you should already know that he lost, not you.

When that shiny new relationship they have starts to lose it's lustre, she will look for her next excitement fix and chase after another married or attached man and your wayward spouse will be left alone and thinking how much of a loser he is that he left a good thing to scratch a temporary itch he had, he may even come crawling back to you and that point, you will smile and say "no thank you"