For what it's worth, there's confusion there and perhaps a chance he'll come out of the fog.
In my case, from the minute I moved out I believe she was dead set on a D. There was only one good conversation in the past 15 months where I sensed any chance for us and even in that one she was saying there's nothing left of the woman I married.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6