Bobby,
The No R Talk Rule apples to when there is estrangement in the M. DB is also about experimentation, and monitor results. In your case, there has been connection. You can share your honesty about the R with her, and see how she responds. Maybe it will be the catalyst to move things forward. At the very least, she will know where you stand.

In what ways has the R stalled? Are there signs of progress you're not seeing? What would you like to share in your R discussion?

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching