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Well the date lasted 9 hours with some steamy kissing at the end!


That's the hilight of the date right there! hey that's great, I'm happy for you! smile

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THEN HE TELLS ME that they are taking a break...from April to August something. He told her to get help for her anger management. He hasn't talked to her at all since then and doesn't know if he wants to resume the relationship....she also wasn't able to be warm and affectionate with him.


So the good thing is that he was upfront and honest about it. He didn't have to be. Also since they were together 3 years that's a long time so that also tells me that he's not the serial-dater type of a guy. 2-4 years is the typical time when that 'spark' fizzles out and the realities of life start to set in...

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And hopefully we can go out a few more times and enjoy each other's company, then I will go back to work and be by myself and continue to grow and improve.


You decide what you want! He seems interested from what you've said so I don't see a few more dates as a problem at all...

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Listening to my instincts as you advise, Romeo!


Awesome! you should always be yourself that way you attract people that like the real you.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again