Seperated But Living Together

[2gthrButApart]

I'm trying to do that. I wonder if DBing is still having hope, and expectations. He's assured me he's 100% DONE. No going back.

Do I let the sex continue as MWD says, or should I stop it?

I feel like every time I begin to detach he lures me back in with nice gestures. Last night he, again, brought up when I was GAL back home and how I was "cheating" and "going out to have sex" Which I NEVER was. I've been with him for "14" years, and have only had eyes for him. Last night he texts me and says he's sure I'm having sex with people all day long. WTH??? I'm with the kids 100% of the time.

He told me he drinks because he feels he's going nuts. He's also told me himself he's in the middle of a MLC. He thought he'd be farther in life by now, and feels I've held him back. He told me last night it's my fault he walked out, and that I don't know how to keep a man. He said I'm such a pretty girl on the OUTSIDE but my personality is so ugly.

He's turned me this way. I'v had built up anger and resentment and pain because of his actions. I need to learn how to control it. Not for him, but so I don't blow up in front of my kids.