So outside of the jealousy that you have mentioned in your post what else has your H complained about? I guess my question is what else did you did that may have contributed to the breakup? What else do you need to work on?
I completely lost me as me. I defined myself as H's wife, or D's mom and that was that. I was almost operating like a robot, I would ask my H who to vote for, if my church made a statement of beliefs I would blindly agree without really analyzing it from my own perspective. I would sit around and wait to see what H was going to do before making plans. I would expect him to read my mind about why I was mad, or what I wanted both emotionally and physically.
