Yes it was nice to get things out without someone judging me. We did touch on the fact the W takes our S to therapy, and again this is one thing that she did without discussing with me. My IC said I should be upset about that. I also discussed that W is taking S to therapy because he said "daddy is going to die". Being he is only 5 my gut feeling, and also my IC feeling is that the W is planting things in his head, I believe in regards to her not happy that I was drinking excessively. He is only 5 and said to me I was drinking too much beer. the more I think about it, she was planting that seed. As far as he knows it was Daddy drinking his drink, he is too young to know the effects and dangers of alcohol.
Anyway I am going to get to work, pick the kids up at 4 and take them to a Karate intro class to see how they like it. after that its off to the gym, feed them wait for W to get home and then go meet with my buddy.
I did discuss my lying issues with the counselor, he said people lie about little and big things to avoid confrontation. well that about hit it on the head. He said you have to learn how to deal with the confrontation which will take the lying out. As Pin said in order to rebuild trust, do what you say, say what you mean and that boys and girls is what I am going to foucs on.
