Very good post. I can tell you that, you don't know me. I don't know you. Yes I do have a concern for you and everyone else that posts on this board. I am sorry that all of this has gone with so much back and forth. You have taken me out of my comfort zone. Maybe that is good. I am not a confrontational person.
You asked me to read your thread, I did and I gave you my thoughts. Believe me there is no malice in what I have said. I am not trying to control you or anyone else. We are all here trying to save our marriages and also to save ourselves. I agree that in the end you need to decide these things for yourself.
I think if you were truly done, you wouldn't have asked me to look at your thread or taken me out of my comfort zone. I think that is the part that doesn't sit well with me.
I am done challenging you that much I can assure you. I will still be here, but for the moment I think we should give this all a rest.