Steady, you can imagine it, in one situation, the WAS is a man, the other situation the WAS is a woman, both following their feelings.
Let them go, that's all you can do.
You're right robx, I can imagine it. I meant it more in a vein of me not fathoming how someone can just walk away from a W with a newborn baby. That's beyond me.
There are responsibilities in life that trump how we feel. There were times I didn't feel like waking up with my kids, there were times I didn't feel like changing a diaper, etc... It's called being responsible.
I'm also with you on the total disrespect and disdain I have for a person who can do what he's doing.
And yes, the best thing is to let go of them. There is no convincing to be had. Why would we want to be with someone we have to convince to be with us. I posted recently of an experience I had of exactly that. If you manage to pull it off, you sit there thinking 'This is no good. WTF am I doing here?"
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