It sounds like you're lucky enough to have the resources to get a coach? I'll take every nugget that you can pass on and be eternally grateful I might add.
don't know if I'll be much help, had to lete mine go. She was just not willing to work. She and I have not even talked this week other than necessary items concerning the kids etc. No R talks, no chit chat, nothing. Still very cold.
moving forward, she says she will file in the next few days.