...even though i said i was obviously not ready for a relationship, he quickly responded with "i'm not asking you to be my girlfriend. relax. we can hang out as friends and see where it goes."
By saying this you left the door open a little bit. If a man is interested he's going to step right through it.
Originally Posted By: DumpedforMIL
...he's not my type. i'm so not attracted to him.
This is the thing. You should be straight and honest and should have told him that. It's direct, it's the truth, it's genuinely you. We get so hung up about worrying about someone else's feeling that we keep ourselves from being authentic. It's being authentic that leads us to the best places. The other people are adults, they are responsible for how they handle your honesty.
But it's all good. You just need to be perfectly clear if you need to respond to him again.
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