Originally Posted By: knittedscarff
It sounds like you had a great trip with your in-laws. Glad to hear it!

Did they mention anything about the fake church your wife goes to? I'm curious because they would know their daughter better than anyone else.

Do they see a positive and good change now that she's pretending she's a good Christian (who's - all the same - still committing infidelity since you are not divorced or annulled). Or do they view it like you would a teenager that dyes their hair black and puts on combat boots one month and the next month they are wearing high heels and pretty dresses.

Do THEY see this as a phase or a true change?


My in-laws are skeptical of all religion, so they are kind of put off by my W's conversion.

They kind of figuratively roll their eyes at my W's outspoken embrace of Christianity. They see it as very hypocritical given her behavior.

My MIL thinks most of this is the OM's influence, and that her daughter is changing just for him. I don't think she thinks it is a phase, but she is not really excited about it at all. Neither of my in-laws went to my W's baptism. They did have other plans that day, but I'm sure they would not have been very comfortable attending.

In a nutshell, they think their daughter is not well. They've tried to give her advice, but my W claims she is happy and doesn't need any help.


WAW Using God
Me-43
W-40
M-14
S-11
S-9
D-7
EABomb 5/09
Separated 12/09