The ONLY part I will disagree with is the loser part. We all have problems and he just made bad decisions. What he did is unexcusable and it is very hurtful but I do not think he is a loser. I think she has had a lot of influence over the decisions he has made and that is sad because I have seen him change a lot over the past year. I do not think anyone in this WHOLE WORLD is a loser..I just think people make very bad decisions. I am not good at being mean so I hope you dont take what I said personally. I just want you to know that while I am hurt by his decisons I would never want him to think he is a loser. I think that he is going through a hard time right now and I think he has taken the wrong path in his life but I cant change that for him. As for her...she is a mess of a human being and I feel sorry for her..point blank...sorry for any woman that would go after a married man with children...how do you justify that in your mind? I am not sure how she looks at herself in the mirror every day. What kind of role model is she for her children? Regardless of the outcome, she is the one who has to live with herself as does my h. Poor choices..that's all!
