Fran,

sometimes it's enough just to know that others feel the same way.

before all hell broke out two years ago I used to talk with a friend who is also a stay at home mom...

We of course would piss and moan about this or that and in the end I would usually end up trying to see things from the h's perspective...

ie. we resent (at times) their freedom...they go off to work..spend time with adults..take lunch breaks...listen to whatever they want on the radio etc...

they (the h's) resent our staying home and not appreciating them for going off to work to support us.

anywho...

h actually let me help him out today.

whenever h gets busy or seems overwhelmed I always offer to help in anyway I can...

this morning he's stuck in traffic and his cell phone isn't working great..he's supposed to be somewhere but can't get there cause of traffic and can't call cause the phone isn't working great...I offered to call..he said that would be great.

that was huge!!

LL