Hi Mr Bond, thanks for stopping by. I have spoken to a L and in my country there is no such thing anymore as full custody. Everything thesedays is about CO-parenting, 50/50. He'd have to be a criminal or drug addict for me to get sole parenting rights.
But I can take charge more. And I figured out today that the way I do that is by not caring about WH thinks. Just start thinking and acting more for myself, almost selfishly, or I guess, like a divorced person.
I've been trying to please WH for too long.
I shoulda kicked him to the curb from the beginning, and I reckon I'd be in a different place right now if I had. Wouldacouldashoulda as Newmama likes to say!
Had a big day. Agent inspected our apartment which I am putting out to rent. MIL took care of baby while I was doing that and removing some initital stuff. Then BIL came over for drinks. He says he doesn't like his brother at all right now, especially when he talks about OW and how madly in love he is with her and how much he believes in 'true love' blah blah blah.
Just realised I am married to a teenager and I don't want a teenager. I want a real man who doesn't use love as an excuse to cut and run from his wife and newborn baby. I'd also be happy to be alone. I can't believe I bought into his mess for so long!
I don't think I will move to Infidelity cos I think you are right G about the advice I'd get.
It's about ME now. Got to become the kind of woman who can stand on her own.
