I re-read your thread to give me the courage to file as well. I am afraid too. My parents got a D in 1972 and changed my life forever and I swore I would never get one. I never did pinpoint an OM but with her working more and more (60-70 hours a week) does it really matter if there is an OM or not. She is never around enough to have a M.

Chuck

Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21
Bomb June 18, 2010
I filed D July 20, 2010
W filed counter suit Aug 2
Rings came off Aug 5, 2010