Partner left after 9 yrs - reconciled now married!

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Thanks kids! Yes we were both ill on honeymoon, but it didnt ruin it.

So I have a major MIL issue now, she has gone to far. My Dad told me, on the day of the wedding, they were stood together looking at us and my Dad said how lovely and happy we looked and she said.."well it was a good thing he left and had that break, else it would've been disastrous for him".. and some other stuff - on the wedding day! My Dad was so shocked and spluttered, but she really loved him and never stopped loving him when they were apart.. but she kept repeating it would've been disastrous for him if he hadnt left. She wasnt aware of his depression, so she cant have meant that. We dont know what she meant. I had to tell H becuase she also has said some negative things leading up to the wedding to his brother and SIL.

The day before the wedding when I went to greet her with my Mum, she took my hand and said her and her sister knew which one wasnt going to turn up tommorow. My Mum was shocked and said, he better had! And MIL replied, oh no, it wont be my son, it'll be her that wont turn up. My Mum was speechless.

I just laughed out loud at the innappropriatness and rudeness of it!

We stayed with her after the honeymoon, she talked mainly to H, directing no conversation at me, talked about she enojoyed meeting all the lovely friends at the wedding and proceeded to list just his friends.

All in all, H is very upset and angry at her and plans to talk to her. He said last night, you're my wife now, I cant allow her to continue to be rude like this. And she wants to come stay with us!

To thikn we used to be very close before the bomb. Now she behaves like I am either not there, or she'd rather I wasnt. And its not like I did anything wrong.. HE left me! Ideas anyone !??