BH, I am not sure how divorcing is going to do anything to resolve immediate problems--in fact, there will be more because then there are legal bills!

MWG has to deal with the immediate problems, and she is. As far as H, he isn't really part of the picture here.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D