After Exposure - Keep It Going

[Quicksilver264]

Let me ask this QS... Before your wife went all squirrelly.. what was her maturity level then?

MOST of the time, she was FAIRLY mature. She has a HORRIBLE temper though, and can REALLY act out VINDICTIVELY. She evolved over the years, but such a stressful situation as this has caused her to de-volve.

Is this a symptom of waywardness here or is she really just that underdeveloped emotionally?

I think it is waywardness, unrealistic expectations, and her reaching her sexual peak. She sees this younger guy as a way to unleash her prowess on a person less mature and less experienced than her. She was barely sexually experienced when we met, and was a little prudish. NOW, she is all Hellbent on becoming a tigress. And because she is "done" with the marriage, in her mind she is "on the market" again and wants to have as much "fun" as possible. She sees having this fun as a way to "catch" a guy, and then be able to reel him into a relationship.

Was she always this childish?

She was always just "romantic" and "idealistic". She lived a very sheltered teenage life, and when we were first dating she was all happy-lala. I think she is longing to feel that way again, and her pursuing other guys so relentlessly is giving her that feeling, as well as control.

All in all this is because she is "done" with the marriage, and wants to "move on". This is the THIRD GUY she has done these TYPES of searches for.

She is moving from one to the next. First it was a married guy with similar marital problems as her. Next is was the Facebook guy and "i wish i could be in your bed right now"; "as soon as i found out you were single i wanted to date you". Now it is a young coworker who she is LURING to move in with her and searching "hooking up with your roommate" and "how to date your roommate".

And yes, she LOVES Disney and romantic movies, so I am guessing that she thinks that this will all works out in the end.

I hope you're printing screenshots of this stuff, and saving it somewhere safe.

Already backed up EVERYTHING into a TrueCrypt container drive encrypted with AES/Blowfish. It's a regular field day in that drive it is....