Give him NO PEACE and NO CONSIDERATION while he's there.
OR
Talk to a lawyer.. who owns the home? If its legal I would get a half dozen friends together and wait til he's left the home then pack ALL of his things and put them in a dry storage facility.
Change the locks, put a envelope for him on the door with the key in it.
That's probably not legal, but you can see my point about the forcefullness.
And yes exposing early helps because when things start to turn sour BOTH spouses will run an "exposure" on their mates. THe wayward one is often terribly inaccurate and scathingly critical.
This is damage control on their part.... They know you may talk so they want to PREPARE everyone for you so you have NO CREDIBIILITY by the time you get to them...
Expose early if you can ... Whomever gets to the circle first gets the most credit... You CAN undo the damage to your rep with evidence.
I would suggest you ask QuickSilver how to track his internet usage... I do NOT think he's not using the internet, he has likley just found a way to cover his tracks better. Porn is addictive and he isn't just going to outright quit.
