So I guess I need to start a new thread. When I started posting here I NEVER thought I would have enough to say or have anyone that would actually respond to me. So THANK YOU for your kindness and support. There are many days that I would not have kept it together if it wasn't for all of you.
Still in FL. Enjoying everything except seeing H on daily basis. He barely looks at me. In looking for "small wins" as MWD suggests - he did text me yesterday when he didn't see me at S's game and asked if I was there at the game. I did not reply. He's typically texting in front of me so I believe he has now found an OW. I'm not sure what to think about this because of all of the random encounters he has had over the last few years. And I know that when he left me ~ he did not have an OW. I believe that he went out looking for one. I'm not sure if that's a good thing for me in this whole MLC thing or not but I will stand in the distance for as long as I can.
I am angry that he is telling people that financially we are in a ton of debt and that's why he is living the way he is living. I want to say ~ well if you know anything about sex addicts the way he is choosing to live allows for him to host the low-life in a manner in which they are accustomed! But I don't say it ~ I just remind myself that as comes with raising 3 kids and providing them with opportunities and experiences to help them succeed - we have probably spent more money on them than we should have or we have spent more than we've saved. However, we are not desolate - we are not bankrupt. And since when is breaking up a household and adding separate living expenses the best way to get out of debt? Just wondering...
