I know exactly how you feel about the NC thing. To have gone 28+ years with contact everyday and now H makes little to no contact at all. I feel like I am the only one grieving. I don't understand it ~ but as Cat, Brooklyn, Gritt, and the crew preach ~ I have to love from a distance. I am trying to do this by not bad-mouthing and if people ask what is wrong with him I answer "I'm not sure what he is going through but I am trying to respect him by giving him the space to figure it out."
As with everything I'm learning about LBSing...it works today - maybe not tomorrow - but I'll use it today:) Keep the faith and do the next right thing:)
PS - I re-read the resources CONSTANTLY!!
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time
