And this is a lousy time to even consider quitiing smoking, though I know I'd eventually feel good about it and look better. I just don't have the "spare" concentration available to deal with that problem simultaneously.
I'm torn on this one. Yeah, it could just make you more irritable and unable to concetrate, but it could also be a HUGE jolt to your self-esteem and sense of accomplishment.
Let's face it, men need to feel like WINNERS, and this (our own spouse's infidelity) rips out just about the biggest CHUNK of our self-esteem as possible. Getting your "mojo" back would be great, and this would be an awesome way to get it back.
