Only that this sounds like a difficult situation. Your support network has been broken, and that's tough. I know first-hand how that can work against you (I am a corporate orphan: the company had me travel so much for so long, and my friends have all moved away), so I can empathize.
You say you are on a "small base", so are folks rotating in and out of deployments and being shifted around a lot? Things like that can undermine your sense of security if you let them. It's tough finding that sense of steadiness only within yourself.
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