Long Distance Issues.....Possible WAW

[Dazed&Confused]

I am trying. I am on a small base, and work 12hrs a day. I have been running after I get off of work to burn some steam, but after that, I don't have much time left but to shower and go to bed.

I reopened my facebook account (for all of the wrong reasons, I just wanted to see what the wife had been up to, if i could find any red flags) and it has helped to see the friends i do still have back back home. So maybe that will end up being a positive.

Something I forgot to mention in my initial write up that may be of some importance. When we first moved to where we lived we made a lot friends fast. We had a good group of couples that we did a lot with, even after my son was born. Slowly but surely the divorce bug spread, and before we new it we were the only couple left. We have lost all of our married friends and stopped going out and doing things. I thought it was just the normal progression after our daughter was born. We were now concentrating on our family. I did miss hanging out with other couples, and looking back now, she probably missed it 10x as much. Our last married couple friends split about a year ago.

I will not lie, it scared me. We would even sometimes joke about something must be in the water, and even asked each other if we had anything to "worry" about. It was always in a joking matter, but it now looks like it's past the joking stage.

Any thoughts?