I agree with you, that she must look inside. She also must know what it is that she is looking for. I am challenging her and asking her what she read for a particular reason.
Look at the books she has read, they are admirable. How many are on mlc? How many are on male menopause? I do not profess to be an expert by any means, certainly I do not have the experience that you have. I have begun to look inside and I also admit that I did not know what I was looking for. I am not trying to impose my will on anyone, and I don't see how you get that by what I wrote. Because if that is what you are getting maybe you are trying to impose your will on me.
Cat I have a question for you? Have you read the book "Silent Sons?" This is one of the latest ones that I have read. I figured out from this book that I am a silent son. Maybe you husband is also.
I am sorry Cat that you think I am attacking you or anyone else. I am not. If that is the impression I have given you I am truly sorry.