Long Distance Issues.....Possible WAW

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I guess this is what I do if she brings anything up? Keep the focus on her feelings. Never say "my feelings...blah"

You're over-thinking this. If she tells you how she feels, listen and validate from time to time. Even if it's only "I'm sorry you feel that way".

If she asks how you feel, well I guess you had better start being honest with yourself first. You sound so focused on her and saving your M, that I don't know if you can be honest about how you really feel (and it will probably change). Maybe "I have been doing a lot of thinking, and I am still not sure"?


I'm sorry you are so nervous. I think if you spend some time on GAL and such it might help you detach and not be so nervous.