I have been trying to text H since yesterday to have a talk. We need to discuss this whole not answering the phone thing because last Wednesday was an emergency and to S yesterday was an emergency and he needs to answer. I don't call him to bug him. I call because S needs him.
We also need to discuss the D. I want to get moving and I am really thinking about just filing myself because H isn't doing anything to move anywhere and is probably hoping I will just forget about it because deep down I think he knows this is going to hurt him and he doesn't want that responsibility, or maybe he is hiding something he doesn't want me to know about. Either way, I have been in limbo for 16 months and if he wants a D, it is time to start moving on it.
Last night at the game, the friends of the girl behind us put on the score board how she is single, needs a date and her seat number. My SIL and brother said they are going to do that to me when my D is final. I said no way because I am NOT finding guys that way. The general manager was sending guys to this girl so it was funny, but I would be so embarassed.
Everyone around me, including me, is ready for this to be over so I want to get moving, but once again H won't do anything...time to keep bugging him because some of this is important.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89