Long Distance Issues.....Possible WAW

[Dazed&Confused]

Thanks Sandi. My plan was to just ask about the trip, how my daughter was doing, just normal small talk and then talk to my son.

I guess this is what I do if she brings anything up? Keep the focus on her feelings. Never say "my feelings...blah"

What if she asks how I am doing? I plan on putting on my game face and tell her that I am doing good. That I am trying to process everything, and that I am taking a long look inside of me.

How does this sound? God, I am more nervous that I was for my first Prom. I am trying to limit expectations. If she doesn't bring anything up, or if I do not get anymore details, I will still feel more lost than ever, but I remind myself that no news is good news. I just really want to know what her plans are, I have never been this rattled before.....