Long Distance Issues.....Possible WAW

[TimeHeals]

Be careful in the conversation that you do not tell her how she feels. That makes a woman furious!

Having experienced this myself (throughout my short marriage and recently again last night), I can say with complete certainty that it doesn't make men happy either.

There's nothing that makes you feel more disconnected than realizing that the person you are talking to has made up their mind about what you think and how you feel, and they are sort of playing out that little script they've dreamed up in their own little heads rather than listening and watching.

The irony, in my case, is that STBXW like to think she is very "intuitive", but what that really means is that she is tied up in her own ego, thoughts, and feelings to the point that she projects what she thinks others think and feel onto them, and that... is the complete opposite of "intuitive".