Beyond Depression..but still a losing battle?

[awest1217]

Who knows what H is thinking? He is completely insane to throw away an awesome woman and his S. You did a good job sticking to the boundary and that is hard to do. What you have to do now is just keep it up. Keep ignoring him and stick with it no matter what. If something comes up about the depression, call MIL and just leave it at that (if you can handle that because you don't want to feel guilty, but you don't him using that to pull you back in either, you know how best to handle it, but be careful).

Also go out and have some fun! It would be awesome if you could go out with some friends and have H see you out looking good and having fun. Not that you should arrange it, but it would be a good coincidence.