Yes my wife knows.Today is her birthday. My daughter and I took my wife out for dinner. I hope things improve. My wife is flying out to Texas in the AM to pick our daughter up from ballet camp. Istill love my wife very much. I started my new job yesterday and the hours are days and no swing shifts. She was surprised I got home early. I think she sees change and is just watching. thank you for your concern. I hope things work out for you as well. Bobby O